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Order before March 16th (Order by the 16th of the current month to ship on the 1st of the next month). First letters ship April 1, 2026 to arrive sometime before April 15th for women in the US and after the 15th for women who live internationally. I chose this date to start because this is around my D-Day anniversary from years ago, so this date matters because I didn’t have this then, I want you to have these tools now. This is helping me turn my pain into power by sharing with you the tools I didn't have when I needed them most.

I could have generalized our pain and just called it "trauma" or "hard times," because we all have definitely been there, and I could have appealed to even more women, but I know that many of us suffer in silence with this torture called Betrayal Trauma and it is in being vulnerable that we can connect and heal. I will share my story of betrayal in a few of the letters to connect us as warrior women, because that is the path that led me to recognize the enemy even more and how I've been able to grow closer to my Savior than any other way, but I will not stay there in that space because amongst the successes and joy life brings, I have also experienced other hardships in my life, just like you. Things like like I already mentioned, depression, suicide ideation but also parents divorce, job loss, car failures, surgeries, business failure, infertility, miscarriages, parenting toddlers and teens (you know I had to throw in the parenting because it's hard) and more! And I don't pretend that this is the only thing that has happened to all of us because there is so much more, but somehow it seems like the most traumatic thing and to me the most eye opening is betrayal and it rips us to the core, shatters us to pieces.

I know it's hard at the beginning after D-Day, to control our emotions and thoughts and even actions, but let's keep this a safe place. This is not a space where we will vent, insult, name call, be passive aggressive with (that one is mostly for me!) or belittle the son's of God who suffer from being in the fog of addiction, because we are women who strive to be like Jesus Christ, and that is not what He would do.

Let's remember that the gift of enmity was always meant to be aimed towards the real enemy, Satan. Everything we do will be to love, lift, elevate, comfort, serve and fortify ourselves and those around us during the battles we face, because then the blessings of heaven will pour out upon us! And we need all the help we can get.

Although "Letters From the Battlefield" does provide encouragement and tools for healing after betrayal, please know that it is not therapy from a licensed therapist or medical advice. Therapists were a helpful part of my healing journey and they can be for you too. Just remember therapists are like shoes, try them until one fits.